Bre Pettis | I Make Things
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I am doing research to triangulate some activities that would be rewarding for parents and their kids to help make them smarter. I asked Twitter for some help and got an epic amount of responses.

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bre I’m compiling a list of 10 things to do with your kid (or niece or nephew) that will make them smarter. What should go on that list?

ddrager @bre Reading Books, Taking them to the Zoo, Taking them to Museums, Travel to other places, discussing current events, spending time with tm
elcoqui121 @bre talk to them like they are adults
pjk @bre No baby talk. Talk to them like a normal person. It goes a long way.

jtoshua @bre goto museums, listen to lots of different music, play board games, read books, have conversations, answer questions with real answers
rockityroll @bre Read. Read. Read. Best thing you can do.
joshpaul @bre Really depends on age and what relation to “smart” you’re attempting to hit.
saxdiva @bre Take music lessons.
LiterateKnits @bre reading, libraries, museums, zoos, live music, crafts especially ones that have counting, algebra, etc, & stuff they find interesting
anwith1n @bre use an adult vocabulary to talk about age appropriate things. Encourage reading and inquiry. Allow them to puzzle through problems
ivynova @bre READ to them, play board games with them (especially chess), ask them what they think, introduce new things whenever possible, etc.
antimattar @bre legos, read, draw, make films, explain complex things as if they understand - don’t stop when you think they’ve lost you…
sstrudeau @bre things I wish I’d been taught more of, generally speaking: soldering/electronics, woodworking, bike fixing, gardening, sewing, cooking
schnaars: @bre teach them to play chess, oil and water (with food coloring), safe use of power tools,
mightyohm: @bre i’d visit your local science museum (more interactive = better, exploratorium is king!)
petrusalbus: @bre Take them out into nature and let them explore. Answer questions as best you can and look up answers you don’t know when you get home.
Ironmask: @bre One Word, Legos.
fernfiddlehead: @bre Are you being serious? If so, read to them, spend time with them, talk to them, love them.
creativedc: @bre shop at farmer’s market then cook with what you purchase

Wow, great responses! Thanks to everyone who is @bre - ing me. Now what is what is it that you wish you’d been taught more of as a kid?

openfly: @bre how to make fireworks, and robots, and robotic fireworks.
ddrager: @bre Social Skills! I had to learn them on my own later in life.
waxwing: @bre Take them geocaching; use the opp to talk about satellites, coordinates, etc.
rockityroll: @bre I wish I’d been taught more practical stuff - cooking, auto repair, banking
petrusalbus: @bre I wish I had been taught more languages as a kid.
Nickf4rr: @bre How to build a basic signal amplifier from (mostly) junk parts.
IanBrier: @bre Money, and how it works. Also the secret to fluffy mashed potatoes.
fynflood: @bre Math.
LeilaAnasazi: @bre I wish that as a kid I had learned more about what can really be done with mathematics, & how beautiful & multiple those languages are
airbrshldy: @bre That it’s okay to pursue the things that interest you most–if you do that, you will be more apt to succeed. Do not stifle kids dreams.
timkl: @bre Logical fallacies - that should’ve been on the top of the curriculum,
suecartwright: @bre recommend excellent books ‘how to make your child brilliant’ (bernadette tynan) and ‘how to have kick-ass ideas’ (chris barez-brown)
openfly @bre how to build a fortress of solitude.
openfly @bre homing pigeons.
johnbaichtal: @bre Electronics.
openfly: @bre nerf defense shield.
phraktyl: @bre Don’t limit them artifically. My son is admin on his own Mac. He asked me to teach him about the Terminal the other day. He’s 7.
amazenyou: @bre I wish I was taught to question things more often. That way you truly understand what you believe
themostbob: @bre - *HOW* to learn - how to study effectively, how to listen and take notes effectively. How to memorize.
bcrrll: @bre how to solve a rubix cube
suecartwright: @bre would love to share this with my niece and nephew - they love doing stuff and I get to boost my cool-aunti status - a sure winner!
tina_m: @bre Listen. Prompt them with questions that need descriptive answers, then let them talk, describe, explain :)
phraktyl: @bre I wish I’d learned life balance. All computers and no exercise isn’t balanced. Small changes then vs mammoth lifestyle change now.
malfunction54: @bre this may not be what you’re looking for, but how about: answering the question, “why?”
iwishiwas: @bre I wish I was taught to question things more often. That way you truly understand what you believe:.. http://tinyurl.com/4wguhz
natdefreitas: @bre soldering and sewing - the basics of making & fixing… i was lucky to be taught at home, but wish it was required study at school
Grifter801: @bre Read to them! Dear God read to them! Teach them to love and respect learning and everything else will be fine. BTW, nice new avatar.
handsomepanda: @bre Turn off the tv
sachz: @bre Electronics, programming, computers. Difficult to guess your child’s future interests towards a field that was in its infancy though.

Update: More!

johl: @bre books&libraries, reading/writing in english & 2 other languages, chess&go, discussing your opinion, programming, making good pranks
neomojo: @bre And don’t emphasize being smart as a criteria for success, emphasize effort, here’s why: http://tinyurl.com/yr4yu6
neomojo: @bre Biggest thing to make a child smarter: first LISTEN to them, then help them to grow their best ideas.
bobtiki: @bre I was told *to* save my money, but not *how*. That probably would have been very useful, seeing how far in debt I am now.
ayearatthewheel: @bre debate, logic and what you can and can not eat in the wild.. like which mushrooms fill your tummy and which ones fill your head.
rascoagogo: @bre how to logically find the answers to my own questions, assets, foreign language, patience with long projects
pji: @bre Wish I was taught: The facts of life: saving, investing, insurance, etc.
ji: @bre To do: Pop popcorn & watch Ghost Hunters, Scariest Places, Most Haunted, Destination Truth, etc., & ask them, “What else could it be?”
missfruitfly: @bre How to balance my checkbook.
mkcho73: @bre get them excited not just about one thing, but EVERYthing. Music. Sports. Science. Books. Games. Art. Movies. History. Animals. Comics.
Silona: @bre I know some top girl scout people… we could at least figure out a series of maker/hacker badges…
yarnivore: @bre - teach them: how to make simple machines; underlying math concepts of the world; love of exercise/living a balanced life
suecartwright: @bre way cool piece of research - look forward to following this through
buhny: @bre Thanks posting (and asking) that - I’ve got another new niece as of last week love all the tips & reminders!
Silona: @bre “hacker scouts” ala girl/boy scouts? awesome idea I am so in. I did girl scouts all the way to cadet adviser (similar to eagle scout)
dealy: @bre that silliness and laughter make life easier…
johannes_mono: @bre: Reading Marx. Your kid will learn a lot. But not only the kid…
maximka: @bre Bring the kid along when finding an answer: take it apart, look it up, stop and ask an expert. Share the experience of not knowing.
maximka: @bre Oh, I’d like to second @johl on ‘making good pranks’
maximka: @bre How to double-clutch a Model A Ford, and why you have to.
fabienneus: @bre legos, huge space for making a mess/building stuff where cleaning up isn’t necessary, great math teachers (i was lucky), books, travel
fabienneus: @bre raise kids multilingually, multiculturally, live in foreign environments (not as a tourist), music lessons, tons of blank paper
fabienneus: @bre share what you love to do, but don’t force them to like it, grow a garden, encourage volunteerism

6 Comments

kellystp

October 15th, 2008

Encourage kids to learn something that interests them really deeply. Also encourage them to learn something for life-long enjoyment such as an instrument, drawing, singing, acting.

wackyvorlon

October 15th, 2008

The American Boy’s Handybook. A prescription for a quality childhood.

October 16th, 2008

Talk about happiness > what it is > how to achieve > why it’s important > happiness especially in context of work.

Make sure your kids are exposed a LOT to folks who speak other languages so they can learn at least one other language from birth.

Great question - can’t wait to see what you do with the feedback.

October 16th, 2008

for the person that mentioned a “hacker Scouts” look into Gever Tulley’s Tinkering Camp. Once my boys are old enough I’m totally sending them there.

October 16th, 2008

My first week away from home I really wished my parents had taught me how to do the laundry! Luckily I didn’t end up with any pink underwear but it did show me how some of the simplist things can be over-looked and cause kids to feel incompetent and by association, dumb. Include your kids in what you are doing and let them do things even though you could do them faster or better.

nOeX

October 17th, 2008

I thing, the best way to learn something is discovering by your-self.

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